Just as my husband said, I had saved up money for both Toma and Saya. I set it aside while wondering whether to give it to them as a wedding gift, when they had a baby, or when they bought a home.
However, Nozomi has no desire for a deep relationship with us. Given that she openly warned off her in-laws, she clearly has no intention of getting involved with our family. And Toma didn’t even seem to second-guess her words… So, I decided not to give them the savings, settling instead on simply giving them “100,000 yen as a wedding gift.”